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Get Out of My Life, but First Could You Drive Me and Cheryl to the Mall?: A Parent's Guide to the New Teenager
written by Anthony E. Wolf
Studio : Noonday Press
by Noonday Press
Publisher : Noonday Press
Released : 1991-10
Availability : Usually ships in 1-2 business days
Number of Items : 1
EAN : 9780374523220
Avg. Customer Rating: (based on 103 reviews)
List Price : $12.00
Our Price : $1.84
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Full of insight and humor, but refreshingly nonjudgemental, this book offers every parent a new perspective on his/her teenager. Dr. Wolf doesn't simply give a blueprint of today's teenager; he examines the issues that confront parents and shows why girls and boys act so differently during this time. |
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Marketadvisory.com Review |
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This is a survival guide for parents who find themselves marooned among volatile and incomprehensible aliens on Planet Teen. Area maps cover the obvious ground--there are chapters on school, sex, suicide, and so on--but it's the title of Chapter 2, "What They Do and Why," that best captures the book's spirit and technique. Anthony Wolf's modus operandi is not so much to make pronouncements about what parents should do, as to explain adolescent behavior in a way that's bound to leave parents with a changed view of the plausible options. Wolf is a clinical psychologist, and his writing is clear--even witty--and he doesn't resort to jargon. The expository text is punctuated with snatches of illustrative dialogue, which serve as concrete examples and help parents learn how to see, anticipate, and avoid "bad strategies." (One key mistake is getting dragged into no-win conflicts instead of having the wisdom to shut up at the moment when shutting up would be most effective--albeit the least satisfying--thing to do.) There are also some nicely tongue-in-cheek samples of "ideal" communication--the stuff we imagine might get said if only we were better parents. After one such rosily cooperative and considerate interchange between a father and his adolescent son, Wolf offers the following two-edged comfort: "The above conversation has never happened. Never. Not in the whole history of the world." Message: Parenting adolescents is inherently difficult. Don't judge your efforts by otherworldly standards. --Richard Farr |
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Appropriate only for parents who know nothing about adolescence |
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As the father of a teen age boy I read / listened to many books / CD's on the subject including this one. If you are a parent who is just starting to learn from scratch the problems of adolescence and how to deal with them, this CD is a good start. It is a brief summary of the topic but it is not sufficient by itself to give parents strategies to deal with adolescence problems. It is just the first step before more advanced studies in this subject. This CD is quite short and mainly talks about the problems and briefly introduces what to do about them. Don't expect this CD to solve the problems you are having with your teens. If as a parent you already know quite a lot about adolescence problems and strategies to deal with them this CD is not for you. I recommend that only beginners listen to this CD then move onto more advanced and longer ones such as : " Yes, your teen is crazy, loving your kid without losing your mind " by Michael J. Bradley..and Surviving your adolescents : how to manage and let go of your 13-18 yer olds by Thomas W. Phelan. These latter two have also been written by psychiatrists specialized in adolescence and have many down to earth recommendations for dealing with many different kinds of problems that parents of adolescents run into with their teens. |
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Right on the mark! |
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I swear, some of the conflicts and conversations in this book are EXACTLY what I hear around the house. The author has good strategies for understanding and de-escalating tense teens. The book is the best I've read so far on ths subject of teen parenting. Highly recommended |
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Fantastic for parents of teens (and anyone who has regular contact with them)! |
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As a clinical psychologist specializing in work with adolescents and families, I am always searching for information that will help parents better understand their children. This book has become an invaluable resource for allowing parents a window into the thoughts and emotions of their teens. Dr. Wolf does a wonderful job of explaining the gaps in communication and understanding that transpire on a daily (or more) basis without placing blame on either the parent or child. The reality is that teenagers, especially in this day and age, are struggling to straddle the line between childhood and adulthood. They face an overwhelming set of challenges in trying to balance expectations of peers, parents, and those placed by themselves. Further complicating matters, is the loss of ability to think beyond choices that will fill them with an immediate sense of competence. The more parents can understand these, as well as other, elements of adolescent development the easier it will be to maintain a sense of connection to their teens. This is not always an easy task. Thus, parents should feel comfortable to reach out for support from family, friends, therapists, etc. Ultimately, as Dr. Wolf highlights, parents who are able to whether the storm while balancing the teen's need for structure with the need for increased independence will ultimately see their teenagers become thriving, happy, caring, responsible young adults. |
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A must have book for parents of teenagers |
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A wonderful book, I've told my friends to buy this book even before they get to the teenage years, it is a complete handbook for parents of adolescents. Wolf lives and works in USA but he might have been writing about my teenagers in Dublin, Ireland. It seems they are the same, the world over. I loved his explanation of why they hang out in gangs outside shops and now that I know, I view them differently! I put some of his suggestions in to practice and saw results within days. It's true what others say about this book, you will feel he has been evesdropping in your house. |
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how to really talk to your teens |
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wolf uses many examples of actual conversations between parent and teen and then re-writes these conversations as to how they should have played out. very helpful and insightful. easy for me to apply to my own negative outcomes with my teens. |
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